Bose 35 II's here, just picked them up on sale $50 off just now.
Came recommended by my audio advisor, a high influencer in the headphone world.
Comfortable, but these are for music and movie consumption, not phone calls so I don't have anything there for that. Over ear is far more comfortable but they do make my ears hot, I run a little higher temp than most folks I guess.
The connect app is clunky but works ok, changed the assistant button to adjust noise canceling level. Might be able to make it through the holidays with some silence.