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    • Prior to reading this NYTimes article, I'd never heard of the concept of "Niksen," "a stress-reducing practice from the Netherlands that literally means to do nothing, or to be idle."

      Curious about what this means in practice? The article explains it as:

      More practically, the idea of niksen is to take conscious, considered time and energy to do activities like gazing out of a window or sitting motionless. The less-enlightened might call such activities “lazy” or “wasteful.” Again: nonsense.

      This is actually more difficult to do than you might think, because we're wired to be "on" all the time.

      Generally speaking, our culture does not promote sitting still, and that can have wide-reaching consequences for our mental health, well-being, productivity and other areas of our lives. Technology doesn’t make it any easier: The smartphone you carry with you at all hours makes it
      almost impossible to truly unplug and embrace idleness. And by keeping ourselves busy at all times, we may be losing our ability to sit still because our brains are actually being rewired.

      Is this something that Cal Newport, author of DIGITAL MINIMALISM, would be into? He seemed pretty focused on being productive, scheduling every moment to maximize goal-setting, when one wasn't in front of one's digital devices.

      I don't think so, since the research focuses on literally doing nothing, not acquiring new skills. Daydreaming turns out to be really good for you:

      Ms. Mann’s research has found that daydreaming — an inevitable effect of idleness —
      “literally makes us more creative, better at problem-solving, better at coming up with creative ideas.” For that to happen, though, total idleness is required.

      “Let the mind search for its own stimulation,” Ms. Mann said. “That’s when you get the daydreaming and mind wandering, and that’s when you’re more likely to get the creativity.”

      I love the idea of Hygge and I love the idea of this!

      The most challenging thing is avoiding a screen, but the rewards sound exponential.

    • Interesting...

      I'm not very good at doing nothing. When I need some alone or thinking time I often head to the coast for a walk along the water. I find the cycle of the tides and the waves to be calming.

    • I'm trying. I run or bike every day and usually have a podcast or audiobook playing. Cal Newport says just think to yourself, so I've tried and it's true, I've come up with good ideas. But then my friends say "did you hear the latest episode of Kara Swisher's podcast?!" And for the first time ever, I have to say no, I'm behind on those.

      I suck at unplugging.

    • I hear you.

      I walk every day. I try to be disconnected during my walks but sometimes it just doesn't work. I keep trying though.

    • I prefer listening to music to disconnect, and when doing my daily walk. Classic music is most often what I prefer, the best are immortal and will cleanse your soul. Try it, you won't miss much if anything by not being connected to the "buzz" of fervent brains who can't disconnect... haha

      I don't ever let my mind to be "taken"

    • This sounds like a bit of me. I quite enjoy just doing nothing.
      It's true tho the phones do get in the way now days.