I don’t think you’re obnoxious, just passionate about your point of view. 🙂
It seems as if we’re coming to Cake with diametrically opposed end goals. I joined Cake because I’m a bit of a polymath who got frustrated with Twitter’s narrowcasting, which limited my productive and enjoyable conversations to mathematics. The breadth and depth of conversations here is a welcome change. Although I do have topics I follow, the greatest features are the Featured and All threads because they surprise me with conversations that I didn’t even know that I’d be interested in. Who knew Medieval deaths would be so fascinating?
Clearly you want none of that and are only looking for people who share specific interests.