I genuinely hope you guys will be able to find your way through that maze. I would pay money (now there’s an idea) to participate in a civilized, intelligent, creative, constructive online community and not worry about the threats that plague other online platforms. Those platforms seem to value free speech over thoughtful speech, and the result is often very discouraging.
The orientation of cake — focusing on content instead of profiles, and lacking a clear organizational structure/site map for users to see (and then use to pile on) — may work in your favor. I hope so!