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      I'm bisexual. I reject the notion that this implies/supports the notion of a gender binary. (Does "bilingual" mean that there are only two languages?) Many of the people I've dated have been various forms of gender queer. In the spectrum from …
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      I came to polyam by realizing that explicit monogamy ruins everything, but "casual" relationships leave me wanting. "But obviously, that is impossible, so I guess I'll be celibate until I figure out what is wrong with me." Then along came someone …
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      isaacs
      Monogamy is a social/emotional exoskeleton. When someone grows out of a relationship, it has to be painfully sloughed off to make room for a new one, leaving the body raw and delicate. It can provide protection, strength, and support, but at the …
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